HOES OVER BROS !!!!

 

 

 

If you're not familiar with the term Hoes Over Bros...let me spell it out

for you. It means putting your friends first. Doesn't mean always putting

them first. We know all about priorities at our age. But our female friends

should never be put on the back burner. Believe me, you're going to need

them.

 

I just heard a story about a group of boomer women who were divorced

and widowed. They planned a great trip to Europe together and the one

by one they started dropping out. Why? Because they were afraid the men

in their lives would replace them in the ten days they were gone. If a middle

aged man would dump you for not being around while you were having a

wonderful time with your friends, well he doesn't deserve you. I would

take another look and run like hell because you will always be looking over

your shoulder..

 

 Have we not progressed from junior high when as soon as

a boy came in the picture, bye-bye girlfriends. But who were the first ones

you went running to when the the love of your life dumped you. But face it

ladies...this is the story of our lives. I know because I've been there.

 

It gets worse when the biological clock starts ticking and the primitive hunt

for a husband begins. Those chicks aren't letting go for anything.  Female

friendship is at an all time low. God Bless those friends who would still

listen to you after twenty break ups.

 

You would think in our later years that we would be a little smarter about

friendship. But apparently , we're not. Not that we don't want men in our

lives ...we do. Of course we do. Men can be your best friend. Lucky are

those ladies who have a spouse and best friend all rolled into one.

 

But celebrate the Hoes....they are the ones who remember that you like

peonies and love a Gin and tonic on a hot day. They will tell you that

your ass looks big in that outfit. (although in a nice way).

They are the ones who will be there for you in a special way when your

daughter gets married or you find out you have a lump in your breast.

 

Hoes Over Bros. Oh yes.